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Five life lessons from Ted Lasso
Not only will you end up with a doctorate in biscuitology, you will also pick up a few things worth keeping.
Dai Manuel · Coach Moose · Vancouver
Originally published on LinkedIn on 27 October 2023 and republished here with light editing only.
If you have not yet been swept up by the heartfelt, comedic genius of Ted Lasso, I recommend giving it a watch. Not only will you end up with a doctorate in biscuitology, you will also learn a few profound life lessons.
Here are my top five takeaways.
Believe in possibility
Ted's optimism is about more than just seeing the football pitch as half full. It is about believing in everyone's potential, including his own. It is a reminder that even if I am not sure about the rules of soccer, or football, I can still score big in life.
Relationships beat results
Sure, winning is fun. But have you tried building a connection? Ted values relationships even more than a good old fashioned win. And let us face it, in the corporate world, sometimes the real trophy is having a team that does not cringe when you enter the room.
Be curious, not judgmental
That line is Walt Whitman's, and the show puts it to good use. Before judging someone, maybe try on their shoes. Not literally, however. I have learned that not all shoes are comfortable. Men underestimated me for most of my life and for years I never understood why. It used to really bother me. Being curious rather than judgmental is the better trade.
The power of vulnerability
Ted occasionally sheds a tear or two, and no, it is not just because English tea cannot match up to American coffee. It is about being real. I have realized it is okay to say I do not know, especially when asked about the offside rule.
The biscuit philosophy
Ted's daily biscuit ritual with Rebecca is not just about the sugar rush. It is a life metaphor. Success sometimes requires consistency and a hint of sweetness. And never underestimate the power of a good shortbread.
In essence, Ted Lasso is not just about football, leadership, or biscuits. It is about life and the potential to make a positive impact.
And the next time you are in a tough spot, ask yourself, what would Ted Lasso do? Probably offer a biscuit and a smile.
One change. The original reproduced a long passage of dialogue from the show. That is someone else's copyrighted script, so it is summarised here instead. The Whitman line it quotes is public domain and stays.